Comments on: Bachpan http://rehan.urduplus.com/2008/12/bachpan/ A very nice blog about urdu adab, urdu poetry, urdu stories Tue, 06 Jul 2010 19:06:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: zhahmed http://rehan.urduplus.com/2008/12/bachpan/comment-page-1/#comment-27 zhahmed Sun, 19 Jul 2009 18:16:54 +0000 http://rehanahmed.wordpress.com/?p=6#comment-27 The comment was rite on the mark!! I understood the view point and also think that its absolutely correct. Only thing I still have a different stand on is: Luk into the future and have no past regrets. The so called unfulfilled desires of early childhood are Actually there for a Bigger Reason. A reason which has shaped you into what you are today, so deeply in tuned with yourself or surroundings, so analytical, with a wider vision than most ppl have. All I say is that if stuff that's negative happens, it only gives you more than you can expect for the easy, comfortable lifestyle etc. Its hard to explain everything in few words though. Btw, now what's the kiddish stuff that ppl wont accept from a grownup? Any clues? By disception, you mean deception? The comment was rite on the mark!! I understood the view point and also think that its absolutely correct.
Only thing I still have a different stand on is: Luk into the future and have no past regrets. The so called unfulfilled desires of early childhood are Actually there for a Bigger Reason. A reason which has shaped you into what you are today, so deeply in tuned with yourself or surroundings, so analytical, with a wider vision than most ppl have. All I say is that if stuff that’s negative happens, it only gives you more than you can expect for the easy, comfortable lifestyle etc. Its hard to explain everything in few words though.
Btw, now what’s the kiddish stuff that ppl wont accept from a grownup? Any clues?
By disception, you mean deception?

]]> By: Rehan Ahmed http://rehan.urduplus.com/2008/12/bachpan/comment-page-1/#comment-25 Rehan Ahmed Sun, 19 Jul 2009 12:44:59 +0000 http://rehanahmed.wordpress.com/?p=6#comment-25 Well its not matter of what become good in future and whats bad, its matter of happiness of that precious momnet , its also matter of sadness of that special moment. So We are muslim we know Allah do every thing good for us, no matter its seem bad at that time, but its also true that we are humans, at very that moment we feel our self hopeless, we feel our self disappointed , Now see Wo chota sa larka ab is position pe hai ke jo chaye to sab kuch buy ker le , lekin ab wo bacha nahi raha, ab wo apna bachpan, apni choti choti khushian sab kuch bhool chuka hai, ab use koi bary see bary baat bhi wo khushi nahi de sakti jo us waqat ik choti see baat de sakti thi, us ne paa to buhat kuch liya hai, lekin khoya kitna kuch hai ??? i don't think so ik bachay ke liye uska bright future uski bachpan ki khawhishoon ka azala ho sakta hai ... i also feel the same some times, i'm young, going to be a old day by day,i have bright present, and also future... but also i miss my those precious moments when i was child and i hadn't any thing my hand, if you ask me that what you want now , wo bachpan ki choti choti khawhishien poori kerna chahoo gay (badlay main dull future ke ), yan Aaj jaisa Present aur Future nazar Aa raha hai Wo chahoo gay ( badlay main jaisa nar-sai ka bachpan yeah bacha ghuzar chuka hai ) to main Apna bachpan Accha chahoon ga na ke future , dekho Maira present nakama aur berozgaroon jaisa ho lekin mairay pass apnay bachpan ki buhat sary khushian majood hoon to main zaida khush rahoon ga Na ke iske main sirf ik machine ban jaoon jis ke pass koi memory na ho khud ko khush kernay ke liye, Aur jise kisi cheez se koi faraq na parta ho. Allah maaf karay main Nashukri nahi ker raha, Main thik hoon khush nahi hoon to unhappy bhi nahi hoon, lekin mairay ander koi chahat nahi rahi , maira dil kerta hai main Apnay ander ka bacha usko khush keroon, lekin aisa kernay se pehlay mujhe logoon ke baray main soachna parta hai, ke wo kia soachien gay main uneducated, un-professional third class street rat hoon jo bachoon jaisy harktien kerta phir raha hai, haan main logoon ki parwa nahi kerta lekin ager mujhe jaisa present ab maira hai aur jaisa future mujhe apna nazar aa raha hai waisa rakhna hai to mujhe logoon ki parwa kerni ho gi, mujhe apni khushi se pehlay yeah soachna ho ga ke log mujhe odd na samjhien, kion ke hum Mashrty Janwar (society Animals )* hain, humien apni khushi se pehlay logoon ki taraf dekhna parta hai , Allah Maaf keray yeah nashukri nahi, Allah ka shuker hai ab main buhat accha hoon buhat saray logoon se accha lekin, yeah jo aisy choti choti chuban, Khalish (regreat) jaan hi nahi chortien . awwww hows that :-) kaisy lagi story ??? And Description??? Naar-sai = Pohanch ke baher = not in your hand Well its not matter of what become good in future and whats bad, its matter of happiness of that precious momnet , its also matter of sadness of that special moment. So We are muslim we know Allah do every thing good for us, no matter its seem bad at that time, but its also true that we are humans, at very that moment we feel our self hopeless, we feel our self disappointed ,
Now see Wo chota sa larka ab is position pe hai ke jo chaye to sab kuch buy ker le , lekin ab wo bacha nahi raha, ab wo apna bachpan, apni choti choti khushian sab kuch bhool chuka hai, ab use koi bary see bary baat bhi wo khushi nahi de sakti jo us waqat ik choti see baat de sakti thi, us ne paa to buhat kuch liya hai, lekin khoya kitna kuch hai ??? i don’t think so ik bachay ke liye uska bright future uski bachpan ki khawhishoon ka azala ho sakta hai … i also feel the same some times, i’m young, going to be a old day by day,i have bright present, and also future… but also i miss my those precious moments when i was child and i hadn’t any thing my hand, if you ask me that what you want now , wo bachpan ki choti choti khawhishien poori kerna chahoo gay (badlay main dull future ke ), yan Aaj jaisa Present aur Future nazar Aa raha hai Wo chahoo gay ( badlay main jaisa nar-sai ka bachpan yeah bacha ghuzar chuka hai ) to main Apna bachpan Accha chahoon ga na ke future , dekho Maira present nakama aur berozgaroon jaisa ho lekin mairay pass apnay bachpan ki buhat sary khushian majood hoon to main zaida khush rahoon ga Na ke iske main sirf ik machine ban jaoon jis ke pass koi memory na ho khud ko khush kernay ke liye, Aur jise kisi cheez se koi faraq na parta ho. Allah maaf karay main Nashukri nahi ker raha, Main thik hoon khush nahi hoon to unhappy bhi nahi hoon, lekin mairay ander koi chahat nahi rahi , maira dil kerta hai main Apnay ander ka bacha usko khush keroon, lekin aisa kernay se pehlay mujhe logoon ke baray main soachna parta hai, ke wo kia soachien gay main uneducated, un-professional third class street rat hoon jo bachoon jaisy harktien kerta phir raha hai, haan main logoon ki parwa nahi kerta lekin ager mujhe jaisa present ab maira hai aur jaisa future mujhe apna nazar aa raha hai waisa rakhna hai to mujhe logoon ki parwa kerni ho gi, mujhe apni khushi se pehlay yeah soachna ho ga ke log mujhe odd na samjhien, kion ke hum Mashrty Janwar (society Animals )* hain, humien apni khushi se pehlay logoon ki taraf dekhna parta hai ,

Allah Maaf keray yeah nashukri nahi, Allah ka shuker hai ab main buhat accha hoon buhat saray logoon se accha lekin, yeah jo aisy choti choti chuban, Khalish (regreat) jaan hi nahi chortien . awwww

hows that :-) kaisy lagi story ??? And Description???

Naar-sai = Pohanch ke baher = not in your hand

]]> By: zhahmed http://rehan.urduplus.com/2008/12/bachpan/comment-page-1/#comment-26 zhahmed Fri, 17 Jul 2009 21:15:46 +0000 http://rehanahmed.wordpress.com/?p=6#comment-26 How many times it happens in life that when you desire smthg and cant get it, you feel like you lost the Whole World. And when you get in the position where you can actually have it, you feel neither the need, nor the desire. But still, Situations in life make me realise the fact how important things are in THE END. Even if you possess smthg, and the thing was the top most on your wishlist, how long is your happiness, you excitement going to last?? It will fade in few hours, few days, months or years...and your eyes set on smthg New. So, if you don't get smthg [definitely some muslahat from The Divine] think you wudnt have cared less...coz the positive feelings associated with it possession are temporary... Wo Chotta Sa larka ab aik musafat tay kar k wahan puhunch gaya hai, jahan wo chahay to shayad dekh sakay K us k bachpun mein aisa hua kuon Akhir, There's always a Reason. and There's always a Muslahat.... Think +ive ;] btw, wats Naar-sai ?? How many times it happens in life that when you desire smthg and cant get it, you feel like you lost the Whole World. And when you get in the position where you can actually have it, you feel neither the need, nor the desire.
But still, Situations in life make me realise the fact how important things are in THE END. Even if you possess smthg, and the thing was the top most on your wishlist, how long is your happiness, you excitement going to last?? It will fade in few hours, few days, months or years…and your eyes set on smthg New. So, if you don’t get smthg [definitely some muslahat from The Divine] think you wudnt have cared less…coz the positive feelings associated with it possession are temporary…
Wo Chotta Sa larka ab aik musafat tay kar k wahan puhunch gaya hai, jahan wo chahay to shayad dekh sakay K us k bachpun mein aisa hua kuon Akhir, There’s always a Reason. and There’s always a Muslahat….

Think +ive ;]
btw, wats Naar-sai ??

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